20 Ways to Love Your Wife

 
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We asked women to finish this statement: ‘I wish my husband would love me by…’ No matter where we went, the answers were invariably the same. Over the years we’ve saved all of the replies and categorized them according to the number of times each particular response was mentioned. We want to share the ‘top twenty’ with you.

 
 

The Top 20

  1. By Listening to Me

  2. By Taking My ‘Petty Problems’ Seriously

  3. By Communicating More Openly with Me

  4. By Noticing Me More-Not Just When He Wants Sex

  5. By Saying ‘Thank You’ for the Things I Do

  6. By Being Interested in My Life…at Least Acting Like You’re Interested

  7. By Showing Affection When Other People Are Around

  8. By Sharing His Goals and Values with Me; Talking His Business Over with Me

  9. By Remembering Me with Little Gifts or Just Planning an Evening Out Every So Often

  10. By Taking Me Out Without the Kids More-Maybe Just for a Ride

  11. By Including Me in the Things He Does

  12. By Trying to Understand Me

  13. By Getting Involved with Things I Enjoy Doing

  14. By Just Holding Me in His Arms and Talking to Me

  15. By Being Tender & Using Kind, Tender Words

  16. By Helping in the Discipline of the Children

  17. By Saying Little Words of Caring, Compliments, and Appreciation

  18. By Accepting Me Just As I Am

  19. By Spending More Time with the Family

  20. By Making Me Feel Like a Woman